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The Day’s Order

The Day’s Order

I just came from attending the Lingkod Weekend, the culminating activity for those who joined our Christian Life Series these past few Sundays. While it’s been almost a year since I’ve taken my commitment vows, I have not had the opportunity to join this activity, so with curiosity and excitement in tow, off I went to the St. Charles Borromeo Retreat House last Saturday.

Aside from the commitment…

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My Life So Far

My Life So Far

I’m supposed to be working on a proposal–gratis, as a favor to a former boss, but I just can’t resist temptation of scrolling through and clicking Refresh on Facebook every five minutes–which is turning out to be a disappointing activity, with very little worthwhile turning up.

How convenient then that I suddenly remember I still have a WordPress account and resurrect my resolve to start writing…

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1. Be aware of how you feel.

As soon as you sense that you are tense, obsessed or conflicted, pay attention, advises psychologist Jennifer Crocker of the Ohio State University. These emotions signal that your motivations may be tangled with self-esteem.

2. Ask yourself “Why?”

As you think about your situation, ask yourself: What am I trying to prove to others? What do I want to gain? What am I afraid to lose? If your answers revolve around either a fear of failing or the success, status and rewards that will arrive once you have accomplished your goal, you are likely chasing self-esteem.

3. Change your outlook.

Instead of focusing on your own success, think about what you might want to create or accomplish, how your efforts might benefit others or what you might learn from the experience.

4. Embrace empathy and vulnerability.

Be honest with others about your fears and challenges and listen openly to their concerns. Leadership coach Shayne Hughes of California-based consultancy Learning as Leadership says such actions allow you to cultivate compassion. Reorienting your goals in a more compassionate way can make you feel more clear-headed and at peace.

How to stop chasing self-esteem – four tips from Scientific American. Pair with Martin Seligman, father of the Positive Psychology movement, on learned optimism, Philippa Perry on how to stay sane, and philosopher Roman Krznaric on empathy. (via explore-blog)
On Being Vulnerable

We always have to appear so strong to others, so put together. Such that when others point out our shortcomings, we go on the defense and immediately start to plot revenge–how dare they act like gods when they are no more flawed than us?

But what some of…

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30, or 35

For all the drudgery that it entails, such as checking pile after pile of homework and computing grades, I love teaching. Teaching brought me out of my shell and gave me an appreciation for the nobility of this profession. I treasure the relationships…

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Sugarcoated Procrastination

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by: Thalia (Causal Analysis)

My cause-and-effect essay discussing about why do people procrastinate.

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Such gorgeous vintage anatomy of plant cells. Complement with Ernst Haeckel’s stunning 19th-century biological illustrations

Awww, reminds me so much of my Bio400 days … and the illustrations I drew - painstakingly - in class.